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Uncovering Your Personal Lie Worksheet
22 Jan 2007
Presupposition: “Thought is Creative”
1. Pick an area of your life you would like to work on.
2. What is the positive result or outcome you desire?
3, Check-in with yourself right now and identify one of the primary emotions.
(Happy, Sad, Scared or Mad).
•The thought that makes me (insert primary emotion) is …
•The affirmation I need to (insert positive outcome) is…
•Help: If you are having difficulty completing the statements above. Ask yourself, If you did know the answer, the answer is… if all else fails guess.
Uncovering My Most Negative Thought
Presupposition: You will either 1) act out your personal lie, 2) project your personal lie onto others, or 3) suppress/overcompensate for your personal lie.
In the sentence completion technique below you will be prompted to complete a sentence. Please write down the first few things that come to mind without over-analyzing the sentence.
The most negative thought I have about myself is…
What I am most afraid that people might find out about me is…
The reason I think I can’t make it is I am …
The things I don’t won’t people to know about me is …
The reason I think I am helpless is …
The reason life is a struggle for me is ..
The reason I don’t have enough is …
My most negative thought about myself is …
The way I act out my personal lie is …
Another way I act out my personal lie …
Another way I act out my personal lie …
Another way I act out my personal lie …
The way I project my personal lie is …
Another way I project my personal lie is …
Another way I project my personal lie is …
Another way I project my personal lie is …
The way I suppress or overcompensate for my personal lie is …
Another way I suppress or overcompensate for my personal lie is …
Another way I suppress or overcompensate for my personal lie is …
The first time I felt my personal lie was …
An earlier time I felt my personal lie was …
The earliest time I felt my personal lie was …
The person I need to forgive to clear my personal lie is …
Another person I need to forgive to clear my personal lie is …
Another person I need to forgive to clear my personal lie is …
The main person I need to forgive to clear my personal lie is …
What it is costing me not to forgive (persons name) is …
On a scale of 1-10 my forgiveness with this person is …
What I need to forgive this person for is …
What I need to forgive this person for is …
What I need to forgive this person for is …
Forgiveness work:
For the next seven days say to yourself or journal the following statement 50-times.
(Name of person to forgive) please forgive me for anything I may have said or done that may have hurt you in anyway. I love you.
You may also write a Truth Letter by completing the following sentence prompts.
Dear (Name of person to forgive),
It mad me angry when…
It hurt me when…
It scared me when…
I was afraid that…
I was angry that…
I never understood why…
It mad me sad when…
All I ever wanted was…
What I want you to understand about me is…
What I appreciate about you is…
I forgive you for…
Please forgive me for…
What I love about you is…
Sign it
Date it
Burn it
Let go of it
Note: Do not mail, email, or deliver this to the person. This is for your healing process only.
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